Today has been a difficult day for me. I recently got another computer, and before I could put a filter on it I used it to look at pornography. The struggle continues.

Usually after I fall into sins of unchastity, I try to figure out what pushed me over the edge. In the past it’s been loneliness, anxiety, or sadness. More and more it’s just been a desire for the pleasure of an orgasm. I think that was the case today. I haven’t really been feeling lonely or sad lately, and I haven’t been feeling anxious since I’ve been a little more disciplined about going to the gym and staying away from caffeine. But part of me is still very addicted to the pleasure that comes from masturbation and homosexual activity, even though I know how bad these things are for me. It’s going to be a tough habit for me to break. It really needs to sink into my mind that no matter how good it feels to masturbate and have a sexual encounter with another man, that pleasure pales in comparison to the true happiness that I experience from being in communion with the Lord and striving to follow His will for my life.


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  1. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    I feel sorry for you, you're denying your true nature as a homosexual and more importantly as a human being. You're supplanting your inbuilt desire for contact with another person with this nebulous "relationship" with god. This is not healthy and will ultimately be detrimental to your psychological well being, i'd suggest a counsellor to talk through your issues and to aid you in accepting who you are and not using christianity as a bulwark against your true nature.

  2. Anonymous Catholic Avatar

    I'm not denying anything. I readily accept that I'm attracted to men. What I don't accept is the belief that because I feel attractions to men that I must have been born that way and should act on those desires. As I've written before, I can look at my body and use logic to determine that it's meant to be sexually united with a woman, not a man. I am also not replacing my desire for contact with another person with my relationship with God. I have chaste friendships with men that are much more satisfying than any sexual encounter I've ever had. At the same time, I recognize that I can't look to others for my happiness. I've spent a lifetime doing that, and it only leads to misery.

  3. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    Catholicism can really fuck a person up. Become an atheist: no restrictions, only your own moral compass.

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